Database and Application how to integrate for deployment

Database and Application how to integrate for deployment

So I have a big question to ask:
How do I make a Java application (using eclipse) use a database that will
pack it into the jar file, or how do I get the database to ship with the
jar file, without having to install a mysql server such as phpMyAdmin,
workbench, etc?
I have an application that uses a database, now how do I extract that
database and the application, so that it I can compile it into an exe
file, and copy that one installer file, and when I install the application
on another machine, I dont need to install a phpMyAdmin, mysql server, etc
to run the database, and jdk for the program to run and all these
unnecessary programs that the end user will NOT DO.
Please advise on how to do this, and best possible solutions.
This is also what I need to do to finish off my major project for the year
for school (Grade 11).
Thanks in advance!